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7 Ways Harnessing Sexual Energy Can Improve Your Sex Life

Thursday, May 5th, 2011

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When people crave better sex, it’s not the physical feeling that they want to intensify what they really crave is a deeper more intimate loving connection. Transmuting sexual energy from lust up to love and exchanging that love with your partner is what will set your sex life on fire.

Managing Sexual energy can improve all aspects of your sex life and solve many problems including: loss of libido, premature ejaculation, impotence, anorgasmia.

1. More and Better orgasms

Most people think it is arousal that triggers orgasm, however, orgasm is triggered when enough sexual energy has been raised. The more sexual energy you can raise the easier you will find it to achieve orgasm.

Some people can achieve orgasm but only small or weak ones. This is because they haven’t learnt to hold a high charge of sexual energy before it is released. Learning how to manage your sexual energy and harness and transmute it will increase the length and intensity of your orgasms.

2. Full body orgasms

Most people have orgasms that are localised only in their genital and pelvic area. When you transmute your sexual energy at the point of orgasm you can move it up your body so that your normal genital orgasm is felt throughout your body.
And even better than that, transmuting makes it possible to lengthen your orgasm almost indefinitely. One woman reported sustaining her orgasm for 23 minutes!

3. Solve impotence

If there’s no physical problem, impotence is always an issue of sexual energy, emotions and self esteem. Learning to raise sexual energy and hold a charge will enable you to achieve and sustain longer and harder erections. You will also be attractive sexually alluring to women. One of my clients is in his 70s and still enjoys a very successful sexual life.

4. Solve Premature Ejaculation

Orgasm is triggered by sexual energy. Once it reaches a certain level orgasm is triggered. In men this is then followed by ejaculation, which is actually a different and separate process to orgasm, and it’s possible to separate them and orgasm without ejaculation.

Premature ejaculation is solved when you learn to transmute sexual energy away from the genitals and up your body. This lowers the charge in your genitals thus delaying ejaculation. It is possible to sustain an erection and penetration almost indefinitely when you master this.

5. Increase Sex Drive and Libido

Low sex drive is due to low sexual energy or sexual energy being stuck and suppressed.

Little blue or white pills might solve the physical problem in men (and women too) but it doesn’t increase desire.

Learn to access more sexual energy and you will find your arousal, desire and libido increasing. It will also increase the amount of lubrication in post menopausal women.

6. Solve Anorgasmia And Find Your Orgasm.

An estimated 50% of women have never or rarely achieve orgasm. This can damage their relationships, their self esteem and their confidence. Not to mention that it means they can’t access their sexual power.

Up to 80% of women who learn to harness and transmute sexual energy solve anorgasmia within 6 – 12 weeks, even when they have been struggling to solve the problem with other methods for years.

7. Living Orgasmically

Sadly most people experience their sex lives as being separate from the rest of their life. They don’t experience sexual energy in their work, relationships, friendships or hobbies. This is because they don’t know how to access sexual energy without desire.

When you master the techniques of sexual energy you can experience the state of bliss usually only associated with peak orgasmic experiences as an ongoing way of being all the time. This is known as living orgasmically and brings bliss into your work, your life, and your relationships.

You will feel more present, more alive, more attractive, and more vibrant. You will have more energy, more drive, more creativity more success and be able to create more abundance in your life.

For free instant access to discover how you can harness and transmute your sexual energy www.energytransmutation.com/infocall

By Dr. Lisa Turner

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6 Things You Never Knew Sexual Energy Could Do For You.

Tuesday, April 26th, 2011
6 Things You Never Knew Sexual Energy Could Do For You.
There is a big difference between sexual energy, and sexual desire. You can have sexual energy without desire, but not desire without sexual energy. What is even less well known is just how important sexual energy is for our health, wealth and success.
1. It Can Bring Your More Money
Have you notice that rich and powerful men get more sex? Have you noticed how they seem to get more girlfriends, mistresses, and prettier wives?
Most people think that it’s their wealth and power that attracts the girl, but it’s actually their high sexual energy that attracts their wealth and power. They attract their partners, wives and girlfriends with their sexual energy rather than their money and power.
2. Achieve your ideal Weight
Sexual energy is the most potent available in the body, yet most people don’t know how to access it. Most food cravings are triggered by low energy, or emotional eating.
With access to more energy and more connection to your inner self and physical body you will have fewer or no cravings, and will naturally choose healthy foods. Your energy levels will rise as your appetite falls. Your metabolism will increase and your weight will stabilise at a level that creates maximum health, energy and vitality.
3. Improves physical health
Having more orgasms improves your physical health. Women who have regular orgasms have reduced incidents of heart disease, and certain cancers.
Men who ejaculate more regularly are less likely to suffer from prostate cancer.
In addition to the documented boosts to health as a result of regular sex, harnessing and transmuting sexual energy improves vitality, increases feelings of wellbeing. You experience more energy are more motivated. You will enjoy your body more including moving your body and exercising.
As you increase your awareness of your energy and how different foods affect your energy levels you will find it easy to naturally choose more healthy options. Your body will tell you what foods it wants and needs
4. More success
Factors that increase your success are: inner strength, ability to take responsibility and control, energy, charisma, ability to think clearly, emotional resilience and your ability to feel emotions positively rather than negatively, your ability to take good decisions and act decisively.
Raising and harnessing sexual energy increases all of these factors which will increase your success.
5. More sales
Napoleon Hill included a whole chapter on the Mystery of Sex transmutation and its importance for increasing sales.
People buy from people they like and feel good around. A large part of what makes a salesperson likable is their energy. When you have great energy it will make others feel great around you. You will naturally put people at ease, make them feel comfortable. The more comfortable they feel, the more they feel able to trust you, the more you make them feel good about being associated with you the more they will buy.
6. Better leadership abilities
Great leaders have strong sense of SELF. It’s this that attracts people who resonate with you and want to be around you and want to be in your “tribe”.
This strong sense of self gives you the confidence to shout about what you stand for and to be completely OK if some people reject your message.
Transmuting sexual energy increases your sense of self and makes you the leader that people aspire to be and be around. You will lead by example and make people feel good when they are around you. The better you make others feel the more likely they will follow you and the better leader you will be.
For free instant access to discover how you can harness and transmute your sexual energy www.energytransmutation.com/infocall
By Dr. Lisa Turner

sexual energyThere is a big difference between sexual energy, and sexual desire. You can have sexual energy without desire, but not desire without sexual energy. What is even less well known is just how important sexual energy is for our health, wealth and success.

1. It Can Bring Your More Money

Have you noticed that rich and powerful men get more sex? Have you noticed how they seem to get more girlfriends, mistresses, and prettier wives?

Most people think that it’s their wealth and power that attracts the girl, but it’s actually their high sexual energy that attracts their wealth and power. They attract their partners, wives and girlfriends with their sexual energy rather than their money and power.

2. Achieve your ideal Weight

Sexual energy is the most potent available in the body, yet most people don’t know how to access it. Most food cravings are triggered by low energy, or emotional eating.

With access to more energy and more connection to your inner self and physical body you will have fewer or no cravings, and will naturally choose healthy foods. Your energy levels will rise as your appetite falls. Your metabolism will increase and your weight will stabilise at a level that creates maximum health, energy and vitality.

3. Improves physical health

Having more orgasms improves your physical health. Women who have regular orgasms have reduced incidents of heart disease, and certain cancers.

Men who ejaculate more regularly are less likely to suffer from prostate cancer.

In addition to the documented boosts to health as a result of regular sex, harnessing and transmuting sexual energy improves vitality, increases feelings of wellbeing. You experience more energy are more motivated. You will enjoy your body more including moving your body and exercising.

As you increase your awareness of your energy and how different foods affect your energy levels you will find it easy to naturally choose more healthy options. Your body will tell you what foods it wants and needs

4. More success

Factors that increase your success are: inner strength, ability to take responsibility and control, energy, charisma, ability to think clearly, emotional resilience and your ability to feel emotions positively rather than negatively, your ability to take good decisions and act decisively.

Raising and harnessing sexual energy increases all of these factors which will increase your success.

5. More sales

Napoleon Hill included a whole chapter on the Mystery of Sex transmutation and its importance for increasing sales.

People buy from people they like and feel good around. A large part of what makes a salesperson likable is their energy. When you have great energy it will make others feel great around you. You will naturally put people at ease, make them feel comfortable. The more comfortable they feel, the more they feel able to trust you, the more you make them feel good about being associated with you the more they will buy.

6. Better leadership abilities

Great leaders have strong sense of SELF. It’s this that attracts people who resonate with you and want to be around you and want to be in your “tribe”.

This strong sense of self gives you the confidence to shout about what you stand for and to be completely OK if some people reject your message.

Transmuting sexual energy increases your sense of self and makes you the leader that people aspire to be and be around. You will lead by example and make people feel good when they are around you. The better you make others feel the more likely they will follow you and the better leader you will be.

For free instant access to discover how you can harness and transmute your sexual energy www.energytransmutation.com/infocall

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Sunday, February 14th, 2010

Unlocking the Mystery of the Female Orgasm

9 Ways to Help Her Achieve Orgasm.

An estimated 50% of women rarely or never achieve orgasm. If your partner is one of these here are some simple and easy ways to unlock the mystery of the female orgasm. 

1.  Take the Pressure off Her. Do NOT ask “Did you come?”

If her orgasm becomes the “end goal” or sole purpose for having sex this will put ENORMOUS pressure on her. Pressure to achieve orgasm or to “perform” will STOP her relaxing enough to have an orgasm. 

Many men think that they are failing in some way, or less of a man if their partner does not come. If your ego or feelings are linked to your girlfriend’s orgasm it will only put more pressure on her. If she loves you (and I’m assuming she does) she will want you to feel good and to please you. Don’t make her feel like she is failing you if she can’t come. That would only put more pressure on her. Some women even fake it to take the pressure off and to please their partners. Instead make pleasure, fun and intimacy the purpose of making love. 

2.  Take the Pressure off Yourself

If your partner cannot achieve orgasm don’t take it personally. There are many reasons why women can’t orgasm and it is most likely nothing to do with the size of your penis, how long you can last or your sexual prowess. Although technique is important, this is something that you can easily learn.  Most importantly don’t let her lack of orgasm stop you enjoying making love together. 

3.  You Can’t Give Her an Orgasm Only She Can Take One

Many men will proudly boast about the great orgasms the “give” their partner. But the truth is that no one can GIVE anyone an orgasm. All you can do is create the right conditions. Like gardening, you dig the earth, prepare the soil, water the seeds, but in the end it’s the plant that does the growing. In the same way, make her feel safe, comfortable, relaxed, give her permission to enjoy her body (and yours) and then just wait and see. 

4.  Give Her Space and Permission to Learn Her Own Body

If your girlfriend has never achieved orgasm before then she will need the space, privacy and support to practice on her own. She needs to learn how her own body works, feels and responds and she will be much more comfortable doing this on her own. Encourage her to practice, self pleasure and masturbation. Give her space to do this. Go out, and if you have kids take them out too.  Let her know that this is HER time.  Encourage her to have a “date” with herself. When she finally does achieve orgasm – she will feel so proud of herself and happy. Make sure you celebrate it too. Don’t allow your feelings of wishing you had been the one to give her the orgasm get in the way of HER pleasure. 

Once she can achieve orgasm easily on her own, it’s then time for her to show you how it’s done. And then the fun really starts. 

5.  Foreplay, Moreplay, and Get Clirtorate

Learn the language of her body. Learn about her sexual response. The male and female sexual responses are VERY different so learn those differences. These are covered in our online course Ecstatic Living, but here are two important ones.

a) Timing

Touch, stroke, kiss and caress other body parts for at least 15 minutes before you even attempt to touch her genitals. Particularly for a woman it takes at least 15 minutes for the sex hormones to be distributed around her body in sufficient quantities for her to feel aroused. If you rush it not only will she not be ready, she will likely feel invaded. Wait to be invited. 

b) The clitoris, it’s a sensitive subject

The clitoris has TWICE as many nerve endings as the penis and over a smaller area. When you think you are using about the right amount of pressure, use even LESS. Feather soft strokes with the fingertips are perfect. If she wants you to press harder she will let you know. 

6.  Get Intimate

Yes women love orgasms, but intimacy can be just as important. Many women can achieve orgasm alone (and you’ll have to ask her about this) but not when you are present. The reasons for this are usually around her self confidence and the level of intimacy she is comfortable with. Make her feel really comfortable in your presence. The way to do this is to be really comfortable in your own presence, and have great presence. 

7.  Masculine Energy

Many pre-orgasmic women have an excess of male energy. This makes her overly rational and logical. She can get stuck in her head and thoughts rather than her intuition and in her body. This can cause her to shut off from her sexuality.  For her to achieve orgasm she will need to raise her feminine energy, and although you can’t do that for her, you can make it feel safer for her to move into that feminine essence. Raising your own masculine energy will help her do this. Develop your inner strength and learn more about raising masculine energy.

A woman likes to feel comfortable and safe with her man. The best way you can do this is for YOU to be comfortable in and with yourself. 

8.  Soul Connection

The secret to great sex has nothing to do with the physical body. It is actually all about the emotional and spiritual connection between two people. At orgasm the ego (lower self) is surrendered. When you know how to exchange your sexual and orgasmic energy you will truly be making love and connecting at a spiritual level. The experience of this goes way beyond any physical pleasure and is exquisite bliss.

Sex is the barometer of how healthy a relationship is and it is the glue that binds it together.

9.  Sex Magic

Sex magic is said to be a highway to higher consciousness. When a couple have great sex at a soul level it not only strengthens the relationship it strengthens the individuals.

Really successful people have a very strong relationship and a good sex life is an essential part of that. Learning about sexual energy not only improves your sex life and your relationship it transforms all areas of your life too.

To Your Bliss

By Dr. Lisa Turner

For a free audio on how sexual energy and sex magic, including more info on the full body orgasm, click here.

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Why your sex life has lost its sparkle and how to get it back.

Saturday, December 19th, 2009

42-15641366When a couple have been together for a while it’s easy for the sparkle to fade, for your sex life to become a bit hum drum, and those feelings of raging passion and raw lust that you felt in the beginning have given way to indifference and even boredom.

So we know this is “normal” but why does it happen and what can you do about it?

Sex is the glue that binds a couple together and the barometer of how well the relationship is doing.

It’s also the barometer of the levels of sexual energy within an individual. The reasons one person is attracted to another are complex but at the root of it is sexual energy, and sexual charge.

Within the body there is a polarity of sexual energy. Men have masculine energy in the head, and feminine energy in the genitals, women have the opposite, feminine energy in the heard, and masculine energy in the genitals.

It is this opposite polarities that causes the attraction and sexual charge.

For both men and women, these polarities flip at orgasm.

In addition men lose a vast amount of sexual charge. Most people don’t know how to recharge their sexual energy and so over time they both become depleted and then find their partner less attractive. The magnetism has gone, the sexual charge depleted.

At best this results in a platonic relationship, at worst infidelity results as one or other becomes attracted to the high sexual charge of the other.

By learning to re-charge yourself sexually you will become, once again magnetically attractive to your mate. Recharging your sexual batteries is the best way to maintain and even improve not only your sex life, but also your relationship.

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Anorgasmia: Trying to stay in control

Wednesday, June 24th, 2009

Being in your head. Needing to be in control. Can’t let go.

pilotsWe live in a very “left brain” rational society. Emotions, intuition and feelings are disapproved of, not only in the work place, but in all areas of life.  Life has become about control. Controlling ourselves, every thought, every process, and every action become entirely planned and controlled by our logical mind. Some people try to plan and pilot every aspect of their lives.

But orgasm is NOT under our conscious control. Like sneezes they are controlled by the irrational, unconscious, emotional, intuitive, holistic part of our brains. People who only use logical control find it hard to or even  impossible to let go.

Other symptoms that someone is overly controlling are:

  • Inability to have fun.
  • Don’t let their hair down.
  • Being critical of both themselves and others.
  • Being highly organised and unable handle changes of plan easily.
  • They might come across as being demanding, extremely particular or fussy.
  • They have muscle tension, stiff joints, headaches or migraine
  • Nightmares, insomnia or other sleep disturbances.
  • Often feel tired even when you know you shouldn’t
  • They believe there is a right way and a wrong way to do everything.
  • They are often quite pessimistic, or even despondent.

The healing process for these clients focuses on them learning how to relax, and let go and how to surrender to a little chaos.

One of the key factors is to communicate with your unconscious mind. Tap into your intuition if you like. You need to learn to trust their unconscious mind and slowly but surely release the tight hold on control.

Control is an illusion anyway. We can actually control very little. The unconscious mind, although it might seem irrational this is usually because it has much greater processing power so has information that the conscious mind does not. If it is left alone and allowed to do its job, all areas of life can improve.

The solution for this starts with the woman first accepting the need to relax control. Unfortunately they find this very difficult as it might not feel safe for them. Also they are often completely unaware that they are very controlled or even that this is part of the problem.

The clues are often apparent as soon as they contact me, but the number of restrictions they place around and the way of them getting onto a workshop. They will say things like “it has to be in May” or “I can’t do Tuesdays”. They will need to know a lot of specifics about the content and ask for details of my credentials.

Sadly for most of these women they put so many restrictions that they rarely take action to move forward. It is as if they have locked themselves into a cage or are so tightly wrapped up in their “shoulds” and “have tos” that they never even give themselves the freedom to come to see me.

Fortunately those that do come to see me experience fantastic transformations and find that by letting go they actually gain more influence over their lives. And of course, they end up being able to achieve orgasm and harness their energy which also increases their persona power, and effectiveness. Control without power is impotent.

The problem is one of energy and it is too much masculine energy and not enough feminine energy.

FractalFeminine energy is raw power, but it is a little chaotic.

Masculine energy is control, but is can be restrictive

We need both.

Control without power is impotent

Power without control is destructive.

The healing includes things to get them to relax, let go and enjoy a little chaos. Energy work to raise the feminine energy as well as meditation, hypnosis and relaxation techniques. Bodywork to get them out of their head and into their body is also important. Yoga and Chi Gong movement is excellent for this.

If you would like to know how to increase your personal power and influence or you cannot achieve orgasm then contact me          0845 468 1508           lisa@the-o-coach.com

Until next time

Lisa

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What Can You Do With Your Orgasm?

Thursday, June 11th, 2009

4 things you can do with your orgasm

Ahippy-girln orgasm is just for relief right? Sexual tension increases until you feel compelled to do something about it, and then you masturbate or have sex to achieve an orgasmic relief. But are there other things you can do with your orgasm and sexual energy?

We put in so much effort for that 30 seconds of bliss but have you ever wondered if there could be more to it or wished you could make it last?

What would it be like if you could maintain that state of bliss and feel energised and enlivened by it all the time?

Using some special techniques and your own personal energy, you can learn to not only enjoy longer, more intense orgasms but use the energy they create to lead a more fulfilling life too

Remember that peak moment of bliss just before you come. Imagine being able to sustain that for longer and longer. That is what you can learn to do on our workshops.

And when you do learn this, you become magnetically attractive to everyone. We are all intrinsically attracted to energy. This is what people mean when they talk about “chemistry”.

 So here are some things you can do to harness your orgasmic energy.

Suppress it

I don’t recommend this in the long term, but next time you are feeling a little aroused simply delay gratification for a few hours or even days notice how other people react to you. Make sure you don’t suppress your sexual energy for too long though as it WILL eventually demand release and it might do so at a time that is not convenient or appropriate. Too much suppressed energy will always leak out somewhere. 

Delay it

papayaI recommend this to all my clients. Next time you make love or masturbate, when you reach that moment just when you think you are going to come. HANDS OFF. To a few very deep breaths, and then continue. On my workshops I teach a technique to move the energy up your body so that it begins to turn into a full body orgasm. But even simply delaying your orgasm will eventually have you gagging for it so that when you eventually do come it will be excruciatingly pleasurable. 

Surrender to it

Once you have delayed your orgasm several times it’s time to “treat yourself” Surrender to the pleasure and be fully conscious of every pulsing wave of bliss as it moves up your body. As you begin your orgasm contract your pelvic muscles. Your orgasm will last as longer if you hold that contraction, which is why I give my students exercises to tone these muscles ready for the full body orgasm. 

Transmute it

Human ChakraThis is an advanced technique that I teach my clients once they have mastered the basics. As you begin your orgasm you start to move the sensation up your body. You spin and cycle the bliss and energy and orgasmic pleasure pulses up your body.

You will feel it in your back, your heart, your mind, your fingertips and even your hair will feel like it is coming too. As you continue to practice this full body orgasm technique you never return down to the normal post orgasm low. You stay on that orgasmic high for longer and longer.

When you begin to live orgasmically you become calmer, more balanced, more secure in yourself and as a result become more confident and charismatic. Others will wonder what it is about you, and you can choose to keep or share your secret as you live orgasmically.

Want to hear more about living orgasmically? Make sure you visit the LoveHoney Blog every week during June and drop back her to my blog too!

Until next time

Lisa

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Wank and Grow Rich

Friday, June 5th, 2009

In his book Think and Grow Rich, Napoleon Hill dedicated an entire chapter to “The Mystery of Sex Transmutation”. Considered a classic wealth and success book, much of the focus and application of the philosophies and techniques quoted come from almost any chapter BUT chapter 11.

think_and_grow_rich_original_coverThere seems to be no doubt that sex sells. Advertisers and marketers use sex everywhere possible and acceptable to sell.

Prostitution is known as the oldest profession. But is it possible that on some level we are all prostitutes. Is sex our biggest asset when it comes to getting ahead? 

Let’s look at what Napoleon Hill actually said and what scientific or anecdotal evidence there might be for his ideas.

Hill’s claims about Sex Transmutation

  • sexual energy is the strongest, and most potent of all human emotions
  • sexual energy can transform mediocrity into genius when it is transmuted, that is changed from one element or form of energy to another
  • men of greatest achievement are men with highly developed sex natures
  • genius is developed through the sixth sense, which is activated by stimulating one’s mind so that it vibrates on a higher plane
  • once transmuted sexual energy can stimulate the mind to vibrate on a higher plane
  • it is not simply the possession of sex energy that creates a genius, but the transmutation of it from the desire for physical satisfaction to a higher form
  • personal magnetism is entirely related to sexual energy

For our largely left brain, logical society these will be rather grand and extraordinary claims. Victorian values around sex are still prevalent and most business people would likely state that sex has no place in the workplace. 

Hill would agree that sex has no place in business but what Hill was referring to was not sexual arousal and the satisfaction of base urges, Hill spoke of sexual energy or the emotion of sex. 

moneyIt’s undisputable that sex is a powerful driving force. It will drive men and women to take huge risks of credibility or reputation. There must be something more to this than a simple orgasm? So what is this powerful force and how can you turn it from something destructive to something creative? 

Hill suggested the thing to do was to transmute sexual arousal into a higher form of energy or vibration. But nowhere does Hill explain exactly HOW one transmutes sexual energy.  What is the mechanism or process that one uses to change raw lust or physical expression into creative genius.

Research led me to the field of esoterics and tantra. Although I studied tantra as part of my personal journey to understand the human condition, tantra offers the clearest explanation of how to transmute sexual energy to a “higher vibration”.

Used as a route to spiritual enlightenment, tantra focuses its philosophy on “the transmutation of sexual energy”. It claims that when sexual arousal (lust) is transmuted into a higher vibration form of energy that it can activate intuition, higher forms of thought and creative genius. It also offers spiritual enlightenment and communion with the spiritual realms. The promises of tantric transmutation are identical to Hill’s.

These techniques are usually shrouded in mystery and frequently only passed on to selected initiates.  It is seems likely that Hill was privy to these techniques, or at least knew OF them even if he didn’t practice them.

It’s likely that Hill didn’t reveal the specifics of the techniques in his books because, even today, they are highly controversial.

Even now a practice that involves masturbation or sex for any other purpose than the currently accepted reasons would provoke controversy. Although a deeper investigation of the techniques will reveal that they make a clear distinction between sexual “energy” and sexual arousal. One does not necessarily lead to the other.

Human ChakraTantrikas (initiates of tantra) are usually highly restrained in their sexual practises as they believe promiscuity would lead to a loss of sexual energy and thus there would be less to transmute. So tantra seems to offer the ultimate in safe sex.

But what of the other claims, of the ability to stimulate the genius mind and activate intuition, how true are these claims? As a scientist I have to first state that no research studies exist that prove or disprove these claims, all evidence is anecdotal. However, also as a scientist until something has been disproved we have to allow for the possibility that it might be true.

The claims include, increased feelings of wellbeing, improved confidence, clarity of thought, productivity, health and even weight lose. Studies on the effects of meditation show similar effects, although the effects of tantric practices appear to occur more rapidly, and to a greater extent. Sort of supercharged meditation.

It seems Napoleon Hill might just have been on to something. But something that was virtually taboo when he first published this, and remains controversial to this day. However if you are open minded and willing to experiment, it might just make a big impact on your life. I say to my students “Nothing I say is the ‘truth’ but neither is it a lie. These are nothing more than models that you can experiment with. If they work, Great, if they don’t Great, try something else.”  Enjoy experimenting, it’s what scientists do.

For the first time ever you can learn the secrets of internal alchemy outside of a religious or spiritual order. You won’t need to go through years of preparation or study, nor will you need years of martial arts training.  

You can learn the mystery of Sex Transmutation on Ecstatic Living.

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Increasing Sexual Energy

Tuesday, May 5th, 2009

The O Coach discusses increasing sexual energy and living orgasmically. Click here to listen to this audio.

Want to find out more about The O Coach?

In this interview I answer the commonest questions about sexual energy, and living orgasmically. It’s only 12 minutes.

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Sorry I’m late, I was having a wank

Friday, April 17th, 2009

Sexual Taboos 2: Masturbation

“Sorry I’m late, I was having a wank”

Let’s face it – that’s not something you’re ever likely to hear. Although masturbation is more acceptable now, it still holds a stigma and shame. Although people might openly say in a general sense that they masturbate, there are very few people who are ever specific.

EcstacyFor example – there you are having a wank and the phone rings. Do you answer it? If you answer it do you admit that you’re out of breath because “I was just having a wank” I’m guessing NOT for most people. More likely they would make up something about running for the phone, putting up shelves or some little fib or other.

 
If you don’t answer the phone and then call back when you’ve errr… finished, do you say why you didn’t answer – “Sorry mate, couldn’t come to the phone till I’d come”

 
Again this seems pretty unlikely – at least no-one’s ever said it – not even to me and I’m the Orgasm Coach. Though if they did I’d be saying “Excellent work – Commendable”

 
So why is masturbation still shameful? Of all sexual taboos it seems pretty harmless so what’s the big deal?

Why is masturbation still shameful?

First let’s look to religion.

Many religions discourage masturbation. The bible warns against not “casting your seed on barren ground” I’ve found no specific reference to female masturbation in the bible.

 
Some religions believe that a man should not waste his sperm. By which they mean a man should only ejaculate for the purposes of procreation. These religions also believe their priests (only men) should never marry or have sex, or masturbate. Even the strictest Tantra disciplines say that orgasm should not be suppressed.

 
There are lots of things you can do with an orgasm but suppression is not considered healthy for many reasons.

 
Those religions that discourage orgasms in their priests in any way, suppressing orgasm, seem to have more reports of child sex abuse and other more serious taboos. I don’t know if there is a connection between a man suppressing orgasm and him abusing children. Maybe those who abuse don’t suppress their orgasm and DO  masturbate. I don’t have any evidence other than speculation.

Let’s look at it from the perspective of energy and power.

All magic is sex magic. In many esoteric practices the raising of sexual energy through masturbation (for both men and women) is common place and fundamental to increasing power. The practice usually involves arousing sexual energy then transmuting it at the point of orgasm. This will increase a person’s health and vitality and also their power.
Ejaculation without transmuting the energy will be cause a man to lose his energy. Women also lose energy though not anywhere nearly as much as men do. Men and women who transmute their sexual energy will raise their energy – there are many other benefits but more of that later.

 
Now I’m not really into conspiracy theories but making masturbation at taboo would prevent the majority of people from accessing their own personal powerhouse.

 
So it seems possible that masturbation was made taboo to keep people’s sexual energy trapped in the body and only available in its most potent form for the few elite who were (are) in the know.

 
It’s also possible that it was for protection. To transmute sexual energy without first clearing oneself emotionally can trigger problems for a person. Someone who had lots of suppressed fear, for example who raised to full orgasmic energy would certainly become aware of their fears and it’s entirely possible that they might even think they were going mad. For such a person releasing their energy in a “wasted ejaculation” would be much safer.

 
Whatever the reason for masturbation being taboo, it’s still not socially acceptable to say – sorry I couldn’t answer the phone I was having a wank. One day it will be ok to say “I was raising and transmuting energy”

 
Until next time.

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Sexual Taboos 1 – Promiscuity

Wednesday, March 11th, 2009

Sexual energy is the most potent and powerful on the planet. All magic is sex magic. Sexual energy is the energy it takes to create a whole new person. Despite sex supposedly being all about love and creation, there still are and always have been taboos around sex.

Is it possible that every taboo is actually a way of protecting and preserving our sexual energy?

j0433270So what is a taboo? Why were they created? Was it an early of propaganda, a way of controlling people? Were they for our safety? Or were they to keep us enslaved?
Many esoteric teachings warn of the dangers of abusing or wasting sexual energy. For example it would be possible to raise your sexual energy and use it to exert control over others. It is also possible for others to “steal” your energy.

Let’s take a look at some of the taboos that have and still do exist around sex starting with…

Sex with many partners – promiscuity.

Promiscuity has become less taboo and but is still not really considered to be socially responsible. STDs are usually cited as the reason for avoiding promiscuous behaviour, but multiple partners certainly affect sexual energy.

It is possible to “use” others by draining their energy. A promiscuous person could, in theory, use tantric principles to absorb the energy of each partner they have sex with, thus building their energy but draining others. a sort of sexual vampire if you like.

It is also possible, if you don’t know energy techniques for the promiscuous person to lose energy to each partner. This could create a vicious cycle where the individuals psyche craves energy which drives them to have sex, but due to ignorance they lose rather than gain energy thus creating the urge for them to have sex again.

So promiscuity could increase your energy, albeit unethically, if you know esoteric, or deplete your energy if you don’t. Either way it seems that this  taboo have had the positive intention of protection.

More on other taboos soon. All the best

Lisa

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