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6 Things You Never Knew Sexual Energy Could Do For You.

Tuesday, April 26th, 2011
6 Things You Never Knew Sexual Energy Could Do For You.
There is a big difference between sexual energy, and sexual desire. You can have sexual energy without desire, but not desire without sexual energy. What is even less well known is just how important sexual energy is for our health, wealth and success.
1. It Can Bring Your More Money
Have you notice that rich and powerful men get more sex? Have you noticed how they seem to get more girlfriends, mistresses, and prettier wives?
Most people think that it’s their wealth and power that attracts the girl, but it’s actually their high sexual energy that attracts their wealth and power. They attract their partners, wives and girlfriends with their sexual energy rather than their money and power.
2. Achieve your ideal Weight
Sexual energy is the most potent available in the body, yet most people don’t know how to access it. Most food cravings are triggered by low energy, or emotional eating.
With access to more energy and more connection to your inner self and physical body you will have fewer or no cravings, and will naturally choose healthy foods. Your energy levels will rise as your appetite falls. Your metabolism will increase and your weight will stabilise at a level that creates maximum health, energy and vitality.
3. Improves physical health
Having more orgasms improves your physical health. Women who have regular orgasms have reduced incidents of heart disease, and certain cancers.
Men who ejaculate more regularly are less likely to suffer from prostate cancer.
In addition to the documented boosts to health as a result of regular sex, harnessing and transmuting sexual energy improves vitality, increases feelings of wellbeing. You experience more energy are more motivated. You will enjoy your body more including moving your body and exercising.
As you increase your awareness of your energy and how different foods affect your energy levels you will find it easy to naturally choose more healthy options. Your body will tell you what foods it wants and needs
4. More success
Factors that increase your success are: inner strength, ability to take responsibility and control, energy, charisma, ability to think clearly, emotional resilience and your ability to feel emotions positively rather than negatively, your ability to take good decisions and act decisively.
Raising and harnessing sexual energy increases all of these factors which will increase your success.
5. More sales
Napoleon Hill included a whole chapter on the Mystery of Sex transmutation and its importance for increasing sales.
People buy from people they like and feel good around. A large part of what makes a salesperson likable is their energy. When you have great energy it will make others feel great around you. You will naturally put people at ease, make them feel comfortable. The more comfortable they feel, the more they feel able to trust you, the more you make them feel good about being associated with you the more they will buy.
6. Better leadership abilities
Great leaders have strong sense of SELF. It’s this that attracts people who resonate with you and want to be around you and want to be in your “tribe”.
This strong sense of self gives you the confidence to shout about what you stand for and to be completely OK if some people reject your message.
Transmuting sexual energy increases your sense of self and makes you the leader that people aspire to be and be around. You will lead by example and make people feel good when they are around you. The better you make others feel the more likely they will follow you and the better leader you will be.
For free instant access to discover how you can harness and transmute your sexual energy www.energytransmutation.com/infocall
By Dr. Lisa Turner

sexual energyThere is a big difference between sexual energy, and sexual desire. You can have sexual energy without desire, but not desire without sexual energy. What is even less well known is just how important sexual energy is for our health, wealth and success.

1. It Can Bring Your More Money

Have you noticed that rich and powerful men get more sex? Have you noticed how they seem to get more girlfriends, mistresses, and prettier wives?

Most people think that it’s their wealth and power that attracts the girl, but it’s actually their high sexual energy that attracts their wealth and power. They attract their partners, wives and girlfriends with their sexual energy rather than their money and power.

2. Achieve your ideal Weight

Sexual energy is the most potent available in the body, yet most people don’t know how to access it. Most food cravings are triggered by low energy, or emotional eating.

With access to more energy and more connection to your inner self and physical body you will have fewer or no cravings, and will naturally choose healthy foods. Your energy levels will rise as your appetite falls. Your metabolism will increase and your weight will stabilise at a level that creates maximum health, energy and vitality.

3. Improves physical health

Having more orgasms improves your physical health. Women who have regular orgasms have reduced incidents of heart disease, and certain cancers.

Men who ejaculate more regularly are less likely to suffer from prostate cancer.

In addition to the documented boosts to health as a result of regular sex, harnessing and transmuting sexual energy improves vitality, increases feelings of wellbeing. You experience more energy are more motivated. You will enjoy your body more including moving your body and exercising.

As you increase your awareness of your energy and how different foods affect your energy levels you will find it easy to naturally choose more healthy options. Your body will tell you what foods it wants and needs

4. More success

Factors that increase your success are: inner strength, ability to take responsibility and control, energy, charisma, ability to think clearly, emotional resilience and your ability to feel emotions positively rather than negatively, your ability to take good decisions and act decisively.

Raising and harnessing sexual energy increases all of these factors which will increase your success.

5. More sales

Napoleon Hill included a whole chapter on the Mystery of Sex transmutation and its importance for increasing sales.

People buy from people they like and feel good around. A large part of what makes a salesperson likable is their energy. When you have great energy it will make others feel great around you. You will naturally put people at ease, make them feel comfortable. The more comfortable they feel, the more they feel able to trust you, the more you make them feel good about being associated with you the more they will buy.

6. Better leadership abilities

Great leaders have strong sense of SELF. It’s this that attracts people who resonate with you and want to be around you and want to be in your “tribe”.

This strong sense of self gives you the confidence to shout about what you stand for and to be completely OK if some people reject your message.

Transmuting sexual energy increases your sense of self and makes you the leader that people aspire to be and be around. You will lead by example and make people feel good when they are around you. The better you make others feel the more likely they will follow you and the better leader you will be.

For free instant access to discover how you can harness and transmute your sexual energy www.energytransmutation.com/infocall

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Sunday, February 14th, 2010

Unlocking the Mystery of the Female Orgasm

9 Ways to Help Her Achieve Orgasm.

An estimated 50% of women rarely or never achieve orgasm. If your partner is one of these here are some simple and easy ways to unlock the mystery of the female orgasm. 

1.  Take the Pressure off Her. Do NOT ask “Did you come?”

If her orgasm becomes the “end goal” or sole purpose for having sex this will put ENORMOUS pressure on her. Pressure to achieve orgasm or to “perform” will STOP her relaxing enough to have an orgasm. 

Many men think that they are failing in some way, or less of a man if their partner does not come. If your ego or feelings are linked to your girlfriend’s orgasm it will only put more pressure on her. If she loves you (and I’m assuming she does) she will want you to feel good and to please you. Don’t make her feel like she is failing you if she can’t come. That would only put more pressure on her. Some women even fake it to take the pressure off and to please their partners. Instead make pleasure, fun and intimacy the purpose of making love. 

2.  Take the Pressure off Yourself

If your partner cannot achieve orgasm don’t take it personally. There are many reasons why women can’t orgasm and it is most likely nothing to do with the size of your penis, how long you can last or your sexual prowess. Although technique is important, this is something that you can easily learn.  Most importantly don’t let her lack of orgasm stop you enjoying making love together. 

3.  You Can’t Give Her an Orgasm Only She Can Take One

Many men will proudly boast about the great orgasms the “give” their partner. But the truth is that no one can GIVE anyone an orgasm. All you can do is create the right conditions. Like gardening, you dig the earth, prepare the soil, water the seeds, but in the end it’s the plant that does the growing. In the same way, make her feel safe, comfortable, relaxed, give her permission to enjoy her body (and yours) and then just wait and see. 

4.  Give Her Space and Permission to Learn Her Own Body

If your girlfriend has never achieved orgasm before then she will need the space, privacy and support to practice on her own. She needs to learn how her own body works, feels and responds and she will be much more comfortable doing this on her own. Encourage her to practice, self pleasure and masturbation. Give her space to do this. Go out, and if you have kids take them out too.  Let her know that this is HER time.  Encourage her to have a “date” with herself. When she finally does achieve orgasm – she will feel so proud of herself and happy. Make sure you celebrate it too. Don’t allow your feelings of wishing you had been the one to give her the orgasm get in the way of HER pleasure. 

Once she can achieve orgasm easily on her own, it’s then time for her to show you how it’s done. And then the fun really starts. 

5.  Foreplay, Moreplay, and Get Clirtorate

Learn the language of her body. Learn about her sexual response. The male and female sexual responses are VERY different so learn those differences. These are covered in our online course Ecstatic Living, but here are two important ones.

a) Timing

Touch, stroke, kiss and caress other body parts for at least 15 minutes before you even attempt to touch her genitals. Particularly for a woman it takes at least 15 minutes for the sex hormones to be distributed around her body in sufficient quantities for her to feel aroused. If you rush it not only will she not be ready, she will likely feel invaded. Wait to be invited. 

b) The clitoris, it’s a sensitive subject

The clitoris has TWICE as many nerve endings as the penis and over a smaller area. When you think you are using about the right amount of pressure, use even LESS. Feather soft strokes with the fingertips are perfect. If she wants you to press harder she will let you know. 

6.  Get Intimate

Yes women love orgasms, but intimacy can be just as important. Many women can achieve orgasm alone (and you’ll have to ask her about this) but not when you are present. The reasons for this are usually around her self confidence and the level of intimacy she is comfortable with. Make her feel really comfortable in your presence. The way to do this is to be really comfortable in your own presence, and have great presence. 

7.  Masculine Energy

Many pre-orgasmic women have an excess of male energy. This makes her overly rational and logical. She can get stuck in her head and thoughts rather than her intuition and in her body. This can cause her to shut off from her sexuality.  For her to achieve orgasm she will need to raise her feminine energy, and although you can’t do that for her, you can make it feel safer for her to move into that feminine essence. Raising your own masculine energy will help her do this. Develop your inner strength and learn more about raising masculine energy.

A woman likes to feel comfortable and safe with her man. The best way you can do this is for YOU to be comfortable in and with yourself. 

8.  Soul Connection

The secret to great sex has nothing to do with the physical body. It is actually all about the emotional and spiritual connection between two people. At orgasm the ego (lower self) is surrendered. When you know how to exchange your sexual and orgasmic energy you will truly be making love and connecting at a spiritual level. The experience of this goes way beyond any physical pleasure and is exquisite bliss.

Sex is the barometer of how healthy a relationship is and it is the glue that binds it together.

9.  Sex Magic

Sex magic is said to be a highway to higher consciousness. When a couple have great sex at a soul level it not only strengthens the relationship it strengthens the individuals.

Really successful people have a very strong relationship and a good sex life is an essential part of that. Learning about sexual energy not only improves your sex life and your relationship it transforms all areas of your life too.

To Your Bliss

By Dr. Lisa Turner

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Anorgasmia: Trying to stay in control

Wednesday, June 24th, 2009

Being in your head. Needing to be in control. Can’t let go.

pilotsWe live in a very “left brain” rational society. Emotions, intuition and feelings are disapproved of, not only in the work place, but in all areas of life.  Life has become about control. Controlling ourselves, every thought, every process, and every action become entirely planned and controlled by our logical mind. Some people try to plan and pilot every aspect of their lives.

But orgasm is NOT under our conscious control. Like sneezes they are controlled by the irrational, unconscious, emotional, intuitive, holistic part of our brains. People who only use logical control find it hard to or even  impossible to let go.

Other symptoms that someone is overly controlling are:

  • Inability to have fun.
  • Don’t let their hair down.
  • Being critical of both themselves and others.
  • Being highly organised and unable handle changes of plan easily.
  • They might come across as being demanding, extremely particular or fussy.
  • They have muscle tension, stiff joints, headaches or migraine
  • Nightmares, insomnia or other sleep disturbances.
  • Often feel tired even when you know you shouldn’t
  • They believe there is a right way and a wrong way to do everything.
  • They are often quite pessimistic, or even despondent.

The healing process for these clients focuses on them learning how to relax, and let go and how to surrender to a little chaos.

One of the key factors is to communicate with your unconscious mind. Tap into your intuition if you like. You need to learn to trust their unconscious mind and slowly but surely release the tight hold on control.

Control is an illusion anyway. We can actually control very little. The unconscious mind, although it might seem irrational this is usually because it has much greater processing power so has information that the conscious mind does not. If it is left alone and allowed to do its job, all areas of life can improve.

The solution for this starts with the woman first accepting the need to relax control. Unfortunately they find this very difficult as it might not feel safe for them. Also they are often completely unaware that they are very controlled or even that this is part of the problem.

The clues are often apparent as soon as they contact me, but the number of restrictions they place around and the way of them getting onto a workshop. They will say things like “it has to be in May” or “I can’t do Tuesdays”. They will need to know a lot of specifics about the content and ask for details of my credentials.

Sadly for most of these women they put so many restrictions that they rarely take action to move forward. It is as if they have locked themselves into a cage or are so tightly wrapped up in their “shoulds” and “have tos” that they never even give themselves the freedom to come to see me.

Fortunately those that do come to see me experience fantastic transformations and find that by letting go they actually gain more influence over their lives. And of course, they end up being able to achieve orgasm and harness their energy which also increases their persona power, and effectiveness. Control without power is impotent.

The problem is one of energy and it is too much masculine energy and not enough feminine energy.

FractalFeminine energy is raw power, but it is a little chaotic.

Masculine energy is control, but is can be restrictive

We need both.

Control without power is impotent

Power without control is destructive.

The healing includes things to get them to relax, let go and enjoy a little chaos. Energy work to raise the feminine energy as well as meditation, hypnosis and relaxation techniques. Bodywork to get them out of their head and into their body is also important. Yoga and Chi Gong movement is excellent for this.

If you would like to know how to increase your personal power and influence or you cannot achieve orgasm then contact me          0845 468 1508           lisa@the-o-coach.com

Until next time

Lisa

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