Posts Tagged ‘Orgasm’

7 Ways Harnessing Sexual Energy Can Improve Your Sex Life

Thursday, May 5th, 2011

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When people crave better sex, it’s not the physical feeling that they want to intensify what they really crave is a deeper more intimate loving connection. Transmuting sexual energy from lust up to love and exchanging that love with your partner is what will set your sex life on fire.

Managing Sexual energy can improve all aspects of your sex life and solve many problems including: loss of libido, premature ejaculation, impotence, anorgasmia.

1. More and Better orgasms

Most people think it is arousal that triggers orgasm, however, orgasm is triggered when enough sexual energy has been raised. The more sexual energy you can raise the easier you will find it to achieve orgasm.

Some people can achieve orgasm but only small or weak ones. This is because they haven’t learnt to hold a high charge of sexual energy before it is released. Learning how to manage your sexual energy and harness and transmute it will increase the length and intensity of your orgasms.

2. Full body orgasms

Most people have orgasms that are localised only in their genital and pelvic area. When you transmute your sexual energy at the point of orgasm you can move it up your body so that your normal genital orgasm is felt throughout your body.
And even better than that, transmuting makes it possible to lengthen your orgasm almost indefinitely. One woman reported sustaining her orgasm for 23 minutes!

3. Solve impotence

If there’s no physical problem, impotence is always an issue of sexual energy, emotions and self esteem. Learning to raise sexual energy and hold a charge will enable you to achieve and sustain longer and harder erections. You will also be attractive sexually alluring to women. One of my clients is in his 70s and still enjoys a very successful sexual life.

4. Solve Premature Ejaculation

Orgasm is triggered by sexual energy. Once it reaches a certain level orgasm is triggered. In men this is then followed by ejaculation, which is actually a different and separate process to orgasm, and it’s possible to separate them and orgasm without ejaculation.

Premature ejaculation is solved when you learn to transmute sexual energy away from the genitals and up your body. This lowers the charge in your genitals thus delaying ejaculation. It is possible to sustain an erection and penetration almost indefinitely when you master this.

5. Increase Sex Drive and Libido

Low sex drive is due to low sexual energy or sexual energy being stuck and suppressed.

Little blue or white pills might solve the physical problem in men (and women too) but it doesn’t increase desire.

Learn to access more sexual energy and you will find your arousal, desire and libido increasing. It will also increase the amount of lubrication in post menopausal women.

6. Solve Anorgasmia And Find Your Orgasm.

An estimated 50% of women have never or rarely achieve orgasm. This can damage their relationships, their self esteem and their confidence. Not to mention that it means they can’t access their sexual power.

Up to 80% of women who learn to harness and transmute sexual energy solve anorgasmia within 6 – 12 weeks, even when they have been struggling to solve the problem with other methods for years.

7. Living Orgasmically

Sadly most people experience their sex lives as being separate from the rest of their life. They don’t experience sexual energy in their work, relationships, friendships or hobbies. This is because they don’t know how to access sexual energy without desire.

When you master the techniques of sexual energy you can experience the state of bliss usually only associated with peak orgasmic experiences as an ongoing way of being all the time. This is known as living orgasmically and brings bliss into your work, your life, and your relationships.

You will feel more present, more alive, more attractive, and more vibrant. You will have more energy, more drive, more creativity more success and be able to create more abundance in your life.

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By Dr. Lisa Turner

Why your sex life has lost its sparkle and how to get it back.

Saturday, December 19th, 2009

42-15641366When a couple have been together for a while it’s easy for the sparkle to fade, for your sex life to become a bit hum drum, and those feelings of raging passion and raw lust that you felt in the beginning have given way to indifference and even boredom.

So we know this is “normal” but why does it happen and what can you do about it?

Sex is the glue that binds a couple together and the barometer of how well the relationship is doing.

It’s also the barometer of the levels of sexual energy within an individual. The reasons one person is attracted to another are complex but at the root of it is sexual energy, and sexual charge.

Within the body there is a polarity of sexual energy. Men have masculine energy in the head, and feminine energy in the genitals, women have the opposite, feminine energy in the heard, and masculine energy in the genitals.

It is this opposite polarities that causes the attraction and sexual charge.

For both men and women, these polarities flip at orgasm.

In addition men lose a vast amount of sexual charge. Most people don’t know how to recharge their sexual energy and so over time they both become depleted and then find their partner less attractive. The magnetism has gone, the sexual charge depleted.

At best this results in a platonic relationship, at worst infidelity results as one or other becomes attracted to the high sexual charge of the other.

By learning to re-charge yourself sexually you will become, once again magnetically attractive to your mate. Recharging your sexual batteries is the best way to maintain and even improve not only your sex life, but also your relationship.

What is an orgasm?

Friday, February 20th, 2009

In the most basic sense an orgasm is nothing more than muscular tension released through a short series of contractions, which occur at approximately 0.8-second intervals.

Yet the amount of energy, time, devotion and dedication that men and women dedicate to them suggests they are something more than this.

We also know that, for both men and women, orgasms release a powerful cocktail of chemicals and neurotransmitters in the brain. Orgasms are intensely pleasurable and result in feelings of euphoria, relaxation and peace.

But this is just the physical experience of orgasm. There is so much more that we can do with our orgasms and orgasmic energy.

Currently sexuality in our society is very orgasm focussed. The attention seems to be on having more and more orgasms.

At the Orgasm Coach – the focus is not on quantity, but quality. And using the energy that orgasms generate to become powerful and successful in all areas of life, not just your sex life.